my erroneous zones...

2006-07-26T15:37:00.000+08:00

Children of the today

This week I've heard 2 nightmare stories to with childrens behaviours.

1. A boy aged 21yrs who was under the influence of drugs murdered his family and the later over-dosed and died himself.

2. A girl aged 13yrs who was caught with a boy aged 18yrs at 4am in her house by parents. Due to the shame or is the relationship. Decided to take pills and try and kill herself. Luckily parents found her took her to hospital and got her stomach pumped.

What goes through the mind of our youth today? I'm only 22yrs old but can never imagine doing any of the above. There must be a way out from those 2 decisions. Gosh when the going gets tough how can someone make decisions like that. It's heartbreaking to read stories like this in the paper what worse if you are actually a relative. How can we help the youth of today[?]

2006-07-26T00:25:00.000+08:00

My Macbook Travels In Style!
" STm Bags "

I've been searching for an appropriat bag to carry my cool matte black macbook. Of course it just can't go in anything! So today I found the perfect partner to go with it. Bought in MacAsia at One Utama or Great Eastern Mall the sTm bags are sold! selling fast! much better than crumpler bags! and much more affordable.
For those searching for a bag to go with your macbook.
Check this one out!

www.stmbags.com.au

2006-07-24T08:28:00.000+08:00

5 Channels of Affection & Emotion

Someone once told me human beings have 5 different channels of showing affection. If your are not in the same channel it may be hard for you to understand or receive the affection given by your significant other. Besides there being 5 channels that would also make 5 channels of receiving aswell. Each human being has expectations or ways they know how to be loved. Sometimes when not received they feel neglected, unloved & insecure. There are so many people of different personalities. It's hard to find someone compatible. But there is no such thing as 100% compatiblity. We just accept each others faults and learn to live with them and be happy. A good friend mentioned to me never to let anyone hold my happiness except me! Also when you think someone is making a mistake to them depending on what sort of personality they are may not think so. What feels like something hurtful to one individual may feel completely different to another. It's not that they don't care about the other person it's just different channels of affection & emotions. I dunno? Any comment on this erroneous topic?

2006-07-22T03:58:00.000+08:00

My Moment Of Truth

My future

No in betweens

Closure

Decision

Self Value

Im about to ask the 2 scariest questions of my life at the moment. The answers will determine my future. There is no doubt there will be change. Moving forward or moving backwards it's not in my power and i feel helpless. Have I brought this on myself i dunno. I don't think so. I have to keep it real with myself and the ones around me. Is living a lie better than the truth? I use to think so. But now i need the truth for my happiness. My present, My future...
Insya'allah we will see what happens.

2006-07-10T23:23:00.000+08:00

"World's Best Cream Puffs"
@ Beard Papa in Mid Valley

Seriously! this is the yummiest cream puff i've tasted... and being a fan oh em! i would know! Please try for yourself and and tell me what you think! Most people that i take there end up coming home with a box of 5. Created by the japanese! your puff are oven baked they actually look like someone fist. When a customer purchases them then only are they pumped with yummy custard or chocolate cream which if cold! Gotta have em fresh! Hot puff and Cold cream... the combination is to die for.

2006-07-10T23:10:00.000+08:00

Jenglot aka. Jin

Last week my other half, some friends & i decided we would visit the "pameran hantu" in Shah Alam. So sorry can't remember the name of the musuem. Anyway it near the big mosque in Shah Alam. We waited in line to buy ticket as there were lots of people. Ticket priced at RM5 and it's open til 10pm. As you walk in and read the versus from the Quran about jin it already gives you a uneasy feeling. We proceeded into the hall that was quite dark...we were in a "kubur" graveyard. Up for display were said to be "jenglots aka jin" they looked like they had been mummyfied standing no bigger than a shoe size 36 some with hair that was said to be still growing, sharp spikey teeth & of course long fingernails. They also on display a half snake half jin corpse and half fish half jin which was said the be a mermaid (believe me boys she's no Ariel!). There are a few more things in there that I won't mention. It was said that few of the items in there were still alive and were being kept at bay by the bomoh. Oh well don't wanna find out.

All in all cheap thrills! if you guys are bored go and be a GHOSTBUSTER!

2006-07-06T15:16:00.000+08:00

Tv Series GREY'S ANATOMY

After so many friends telling me to watch this! I finally got a chance! and i have to say it's addcitive... Not to mention the attending doctor in it is a stud. Besides that it has great sense of humour and you'll learn a thing or two about surgery procedures. It's taken me 24 hours to finish the 1st season which is 2 disc. I can't wait for season 2 even considering buying it amazon rather than wait for our local dvd peddlers to have it on sale.

2006-07-05T16:43:00.000+08:00

Macbook

I seriously recommend this! Mac is definatly more basic to use than Pc and now Mac being Pc friendly it's even better!
Virus free! I've had my old Powerbook for 2 years and it's never crashed! Compared to the old Powerbook camera, microphone & wifi has all been built in ( this cost me a bomb before to buy) . It's good design and fast processor makes it a dream to use. Currently I use mac & pc and I have to admit once you get the hang of it. Mac is definaly easier to use.

www.mac.com
www.apple.com

2006-06-29T15:16:00.000+08:00

Tocca Candles
Absoloutely Heavenly...
Treat yourself! Love yourself!

You can have lots of candles for the price of one tocca candle. But you only need one tocca candle to make the room you are in feel like bliss... Each candle only needs to burn for 10 mins and your room is ready! Don't believe me try it for yourself...

My favourite scents

Cleopatra
Blending old world ambiance with invigorating freshness. The aromas of watery cucumber and tangy grapefruit purify the air and cleanse the senses, rejuvenate the body and enchance the ritual

Rodolfo
Scent of tuberose envelopes the air like silk on skin, an expression of soft seduction with subtle spice. One touch comforts reality and fulfills fantasy.

Pushkar
Long favourite of Kings & Maharajas, Agarwood is produced by all Aloetrees of the celestial town of Pushkar. The distinct scent of this mysterious wood is reminiscent of precious balsams & resins.

www.tocca.com

2006-06-23T12:55:00.000+08:00

SUPERMAN RETURNS

Start Queing everyone!
It premiers this Thursday 29th June 2006
Go get your tickets! and merchandise!
The most famous superhero ever!

2006-06-22T14:13:00.000+08:00

My Muse

Can we please make an exception for this time...
This time the artist is a lady...

2006-06-21T14:58:00.000+08:00

Wondering What to do?
Here's an idea a friend gave me...
Visit this page put in your favourite artist or song and it will find you probably similar music you will enjoy!

http://www.pandora.com

2006-06-20T21:42:00.000+08:00

Years Come and Go...
But Today is a Special Day...
2006 2006
Double Match...
It Happens Only Once in a Lifetime
So I wish you all a very Wonderful Day

2006-06-20T21:39:00.000+08:00

I Miss My Eating Buddy...

The first time we decided to meet after a long time...we sat at Alexis Ge Mall for 7 hours eating & talking...
So lets go back a little...
We've known each other since primary school "Sekolah Sri Inai"
But lost contact for who knows how many years!
Thanks to Mr.Zam Zalman who is gettin hitched this December to the lovely Miss.Normah. He re-introduced us!
Since then we've been stuck together when it comes to food... The only difference is Teja is a stick and I have to spend 30 minutes on a cross country skiing machine to stay looking somewhat slim.

So Teja I hope you are reading this!!! there is a conveyed message!!!

The unfortunate things is me and my eating buddy have to be separated a few times a year according to the american holiday system! She's stuck out in New Orleans doing something cool every weekend!!! while I'm in Kuala Lumpur! (beat that! *sarcasm)
Ahhh...USA land or opportunity, land of the free, where the dollar goes a long way & Bush..(hmm the thorn among roses)

Our Menu
Monday - Alexis Ge Mall (Pavlova, Brownies, Mochas, Black & White, Sarawak Laksa, etc.)
Tuesday - Korean BBQ Korya Wan Kompleks Antarabangsa (Tongue, Muscle & Ribs =P.)
Wednesday - Suzy's Corner Ampang (Teh Tarik, Otak otak, Yong Tau Foo, Lamb Satay, etc.)
- Mambo Jumbo @ Velvet (Lychee Martinis, Illusions & Sex On the Beach)
Thursday - Rakuzen Japanese Chulan Square (Sashimi, Soft Shell Crab Rolls, DIY tongue, etc.)
Friday - Dim Sum @ Mandarin, Shangri La & Little Dim Sum
Saturday - Italian @ La Risata ( Pizza, Pasta, Antipesto, etc.)
Sunday - Hartamas Square (Kuay Teow, Pizza, Thai food, Pineapple Juice, etc.)
Others - My house, Wira's house & anyone else who will let us into their houses.

In short come home...

2006-06-19T18:22:00.000+08:00

Battling with Change.

Everything is changing.. and not all of us feel the same..
Bodies, Minds, Souls, Lives, Loves, Jobs, Families,etc..
The world is changing always evolving..
Without change we are not living. It is said we might aswell be dead if things in our life are not changing. But still sometimes change is hard. We are victims of habit & repetition, Most people like to stay within their comfort zone, what they are familiar with...

I know I do... I like to say that I live in a bubble which is protected from harm and I only allow in what I think I will not jeopardize my happiness. Well i try my best but I've learnt it's not possible. It's hard to see the light when you are moving away from what you know. Because it's human nature to be afraid of the unknown. We are brought into this world with no fear. Everything new is exciting and a whole learning experience. "Children know no fear" As kids "we fall down and get up again and brush ourselves off" but as adults we have seem to have forgotten how to do that. We take our falls seriously, physically & emotionally. Why have we forgotten probably the most useful lesson we had learnt at such a young age?

We tend to under estimate ourselves!
Why do we feel this way?
So many factors do this to us without us even realizing...
Examples : Etiquette, Television, Radio, Movie Stars, Family, Religon, etc..
We are victims of society...
Victims of our past...
We can make a big list of things we can blame it on.
But there is root of all of this... Us, You, Me, Moi, etc.
We cannot control our feelings...

Think about it[?] why do we allow ourselves to feel that way[?]

2006-06-17T13:04:00.000+08:00

Better Understanding

If people who do not understand each other,
at least understand that they do not understand each other,
then they understand each other better,
than when not understanding each other,
they do not even understand,
that they do not understand each other.

2006-06-16T14:03:00.000+08:00

In Memory Of Elmo
3rd of May 2006

Male, Bengal.

For some of you who may not know me... I am an animal lover...
I've had animals around me most of my life...
Recently one of my most special companions had to leave me.
Although vets cannot really determine what killed him it was very sad
and to me a great loss.
We found him late morning lying peacefully under the trees of the the
front gate to the house. It could have been poison or internal bleeding
there were no marks on his body to show otherwise.
We buried him in the back of the garden where from my living room
window we can see his grave.
Rest In Peace and you will always been in my thoughts.

2006-06-15T12:48:00.000+08:00

-P-U-L-A-U- -P-E-R-H-E-N-T-I-A-N-
directly translated into english "stop over island"

After hearing so many fantastic stories about this particular island located in between Terengganu & Kelantan (Note* Our two very dry states). I finally had opportunity to visit. I was pre-warned by friends that i might not be able to hack the accomadation. So I was prepared! Being on the safe side lucky i was booked to stay at Perhentian Island Resort on the Big island which is meant to have more facilities than the Small island...

Travelling
STEP 1 So we proceeded to take an Air Asia flight from the new "LCC Aiport" which stands for "Low Cost Carrier Airport" incase anyone didn't know that. Full of indons i must warn you! you feel as if you are in Jakarta. 40 minute flight to Kota Bahru airport which was quite pleasant and clean. STEP 2 Taxi ride to the jeti which is about 60mins depending on how fast your kelate cabby want to drive. STEP 3 A Fisher man style boat which boat men try and shove as many ppl on as possible! including the islands egg supplies and other sundaries. That's another 40mins pleasant with sea breeze! STEP 4 On da jeti!!! you have arrived!

1st Impression
The WATER is truly amazing..... so clear like a light blue tile swimming pool. It's amazing and so soothing...Sandy white beaches...fish fish & more fish.

What to do?
SNORKELLIN which is amazing... corals & fishies... *i love clown fish and that poisonous coral they live in. Can swim out as far 600meters! Flippers are advisable.
SCUBA DIVING if you have your license! head out! a boat will take you out and leave you out there.
LYING ON DA BEACH! get a tan! apparently topless women on small island ;)
MASSAGE...services of simple thai massage (p.s. bring your own aroma oils)
FOOD... is average but if you hungry everything starts to taste good. Otherwise live on junk foods as we did Ice Creams, Twisties, Peanuts & M&m's.

All in All
Definatly one of Malaysia's best islands! Best Water!